Tami has been a long time family friend, and was one of my mother's closest friends. Tami has guided me through Tarot, Oracle, Mediumship, Intuition, and all things witchy! She has a plethora of knowledge and personal experience to utilize these tools to help her process in her own life. Learn more about her journey and how to connect with her below:

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"Honestly, I feel my life has been a journey through grief. A sad purpose, or a purposeful one? I suppose when you connect with dead people, it can be both. But as in life so in death, what can bring us back closer to love and peace, and a bit farther away from the all-consuming grief, is connection.

 

My father left us when I was just days old; he then died a stranger to me when I was seventeen. Weeks later, I would give birth to my son, giving him away without ever getting to hold him or tell anyone about him. Two years after that, my grandmother died - my closest childhood friend. Grief and trauma weren’t talked about.

 

I’ve been drawn to the paranormal for as long as I can remember. My grandmother was who told me about Nostradamus and psychic mediums. She told me about readings she’d had in her past, so whenever psychics and mediums would show up on TV, I’d be hooked.

 

After my divorce at thirty-four, I finally acknowledged my relationship with grief, and began to shift toward healing. I went on a journey of self-discovery that unexpectedly brought me further into everything spiritual and paranormal as I gravitated toward the things that called to me. I went for readings and heard from angels and guides. I started keeping a dream journal, reading books about past lives and angels, learning Tarot and oracle cards, getting energy healings. I started asking for signs, and I’d get them - repeated numbers, incredible dreams, songs at the perfect time or as the perfect answer to a question I’d had.

 

Six years into this journey, at a friend’s psychic party, I finally heard from a loved one in spirit. The message was short and sweet, very accurate, very emotional. And it was only fitting that it was my grandmother. My life changed at that moment. Everything I’d been drawn to in my journey was validated. I started asking for and receiving even more signs, especially cardinals, hawks, butterflies, dragonflies, and crows.

 

At that same psychic party, one of the mediums told me I had the gift, that I could also connect with spirit. So much began to make sense for me, and a new, even deeper journey of self-discovery began. Not everyone will go on this kind of journey and end up speaking with spirit, but we all have the innate gift of that profound connection.

 

What can you expect from a mediumship session?

 

• Introduction: Most mediums will explain how they work and how they receive messages. Some may ask a few questions or guide you through prayer or meditation to help release nerves and open the door to spirit.

• Messages: Mediums receive and deliver messages uniquely, but we will all reveal symbols, names, memories, personalities, characteristics, and/or feelings to help you recognize who’s coming through for you.

 

Do’s & Don’ts:

 

• Do:

  • Come in with an open mind: Readings are like puzzle pieces being put back together, and sometimes we don’t have all the pieces.

  • Release expectations: You can set intentions before coming, ask your loved ones in spirit to connect with you, but we can’t always guarantee you will get exactly who or what you’re looking for. As the reading evolves, we may ask questions in order to be guided to deeper, more insightful messages for you.

  • Take notes, bring someone with you to take notes and support you, or record your session if allowed. Maybe you can’t validate something in the moment, but as time goes on, it may become clearer.

  • Understand that all mediums are unique in how we receive and deliver messages.

• Don’t:

  • Don’t test us. We aren’t here to prove what we can do, we’re here to deliver messages.

  • Don’t feed us too much info. We want you to trust us, and we can’t do that if you reveal too much.

  • Don’t let a bad experience prevent you from finding a medium who’s a better fit for you.

 

What are the benefits of a mediumship session?

 

• Connecting with spirit can offer reassurance that this physical life isn’t all there is.

• It can bring deep emotional healing because we’re connecting on the soul level with each other and your loved ones.

• It can invite a sense of comfort that your loved ones are safe and at peace, and that they do still exist in a new but accessible way.

• It can sometimes provide answers to unasked or unanswered questions.

• It can bring relief to emotions like guilt, doubt, regret, loneliness, anger, and feelings of abandonment.

• It keeps your loved ones in spirit alive in your heart, and helps you feel supported in your grief. 

 

Does mediumship provide closure? Sometimes, but it will always be a catalyst for shifting grief within you. When we connect on the soul level, the internal process of healing can take root. It can take all those scattered bits of chaotic grief and give them a place to land gently. It can help rewire your consciousness, open you up to experience extraordinary things, and take the heavy weight of grief and make it lighter." 

 

Tami Hawley

Psychic Medium, Intuitive Card Reader, Spiritual Counselor, Reiki Master

tami@hawleymail.com