
During my journey, I learned that even the most ordinary parts of life can feel different after loss—including nourishing ourselves. While this wasn't something I expected, having support and practical guidance from a Registered Dietician Nutritionist made those challenges feel much more manageable.
Her compassionate approach and gentle suggestions were truly helpful during that season.
I'm grateful for the support Natalie provided during my own healing journey, and I'm honored to share her work here.
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"For many of us, thinking about food and preparing meals is a natural part of daily life. Food brings comfort, connection, celebration, and nourishment. But during periods of grief, stress, or major life changes, even the simple act of feeding ourselves can feel unexpectedly difficult.
Tasks that once felt routine or enjoyable may suddenly seem overwhelming, exhausting, or like just another thing to manage. In my work with clients who are grieving the loss of a loved one or experiencing a reduced appetite or interest in eating—for a variety of reasons—we often focus on finding gentle, practical ways to make nourishment feel more manageable.
While food is a basic need that can't be set aside, our expectations and routines can be adjusted to better support us during challenging times.Â
If you're navigating a season where eating feels more difficult than usual, the following suggestions may offer a few helpful ideas and a little support along the way."
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Eating small frequent meals and “snacks” versus forcing 3 large meals
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Eating smaller portions can be less overwhelming when appetite is low
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Eating every 3-4 hours can help maintain blood sugar/energy and help stabilize mood and emotions
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Focus on “grazing’ and nourishing your body often rather than feeling pressured to eat large meals
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Choose cold (pre-made or homemade) salads
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Cold salads tend to be well tolerated since they also don’t produce strong smells/odor are very quick to prepare (foods with longer cooking times can create more smells and be unpleasant when desire to eat is low)
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Tuna, egg, chicken, or bean salad are easy options to keep on hand. You can put them on a slice of bread, dip with crackers/pretzels, or even eat by itself with a spoon
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Utilize smoothies or protein shakes as needed
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Stock your freezer with frozen fruit and add this to yogurt and milk for an easy homemade smoothie. Frozen fruit is preferred to reduce waste (and not feel pressured to eat it every day)
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When appetite is low, drinking calories is much easier than eating them. Utilizing milk, smoothies, bone broth, and protein shakes can be very helpful to “fill in the gaps” when eating is more difficult
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Incorporate “safe” and “comforting” foods
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Preserving joy from the little things is so important. Find joy and comfort from food when possible
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This may be a favorite cereal, packaged instant oatmeal, or a baked potato
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Lead with plants
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Plant-based foods are nutritious and also require little to no prep
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These can be stocked in your pantry and last longer than refrigerated items (reducing number of grocery shopping trips)
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Stocking your pantry with nuts, seeds, trail mixes, canned beans, roasted beans, popcorn, granola bars, 90-second brown rice or quinoa packets, and oatmeal for quick “throw together” meals and snacks can be so helpful!
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If you'd like to learn more or connect with her, you can reach her at:
Natalie Smith, MS, RDN, CSO
Registered Dietitian Nutritionist
Owner of Nutrition by Natalie, LLC
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📞 860-371-5242
đź“§Â nutritionbynatalierdn@gmail.com
www.nutritionbynatalierdn.com
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"Grease a 9×5 loaf pan, and line the bottom with parchment paper. Preheat the oven to 350 F. Stir all ingredients together, smooth the batter into the pan, and bake 40 minutes. Turn the oven off, but do not open the door even a crack. Leave the protein banana bread in the closed oven for an additional five minutes. Mine is always done after this time. If yours is still soft in the center for some reason (climate, uncalibrated oven, etc.), cover the top with tin foil and continue baking until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out mostly clean. Let cool, then go around the sides with a knife and invert onto a plate. If you can wait, the taste and texture are even better the next day!"
Combine the Italian seasoning, sea salt, garlic powder, onion powder, and pepper in a small bowl. Stir to combine. Brush the chicken with olive oil, then sprinkle with the seasoning blend. Flip the chicken oven, then oil and season the other side. Heat a grill or grill pan over high heat. Place the chicken breasts onto the grill and cook 5-6 minutes per side, or until the internal temperature reads 155°F using an instant read thermometer (the chicken will come to proper temperature in the next step). Top each chicken breast with 2 slices fresh mozzarella. Continue grilling 3 minutes, or until the cheese is melted and the internal temperature reads 165°F. Place the chicken breasts onto a platter or individual plates. Top each chicken breast with 2-3 slices of fresh tomatoes, then sprinkle with fresh basil and additional salt and pepper to taste. Just before serving, drizzle with aged balsamic vinegar or balsamic reduction. Serve immediately.
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4 5-7 oz chicken breasts, pounded to even thickness
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2Â teaspoon Italian seasoning
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2 teaspoon sea or kosher salt
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1 teaspoon garlic powder
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1 teaspoon onion powder
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1 teaspoon cracked black pepper
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1 tablespoon olive oil
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8 oz fresh mozzarella, sliced into 8 even pieces
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2 vine ripened tomatoes, sliced into ½" slices
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fresh basil, to taste
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aged balsamic or balsamic glaze, to taste
Tried & True Recipes
When you don't feel like cooking or eating, it's all about what's easiest. I've found a few staple recipes that are my go-to's and still healthy!
This recipe is delicious!! Breakfast, dessert, snack - it's a high protein snack that's super easy to make! This recipe is from ChocolateCoveredKatie.com
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1 1/2 cup white, spelt, or oat flourÂ
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1/2 cup protein powder (60g)
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1 tsp baking soda
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3/4 tsp baking powder
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3/4 tsp salt
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1/2 tsp cinnamon
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1 1/2 cup mashed overripe banana
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1/2 cup yogurt or additional banana
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1/2 cup pure maple syrup, honey, or agave
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1/3 cup oil or water
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2 tsp pure vanilla extract
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optional chocolate chips, walnuts, coconut, etc.
